This week I have had some high school reminders about negative people and their energy and I thought I would take this opportunity to share with you my thoughts on this topic because I know I am not the only one who experiences people like this in their lives.
Do you remember the saying “Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me?” And remember being little and having those names actually really hurt you inside even if you tried not to show it.
This week I have had someone throw their sticks my way but to be honest I just don’t care. This isn’t high school anymore, your sticks cannot hurt my bones or my heart. I can see through you now, I have grown up, I see your sorrow in your heart that you are projecting on others. I keep my distance because I am too trusting of your false friendship but I know that inside you are hurting.
Life is too busy, crazy, stressful, hard and demanding to allow hatred in. Instead I will choose my friends wisely, I will value them, I will appreciate my family and I will move forward with a happy healthy heart.
If you have someone throwing sticks your way just remind yourself of what is the most important and in the grande scheme of things it just doesn’t matter so Who Gives A $#^& what others think. Next time you experience someone who is throwing negativity your way just say to yourself.
If you have experienced this, know someone who does then please share today’s post! Hit the share button because you never know what people are dealing with behind their mask of social media and sometimes it’s exactly what they need to hear.
To chat a little bit about today’s look I am wearing this blush pink camisole that I have had forever! I am such a cami lover and cannot recommend enough to have some of these as staples in your closet. They are great for the summer and then throw on a blazer or cardigan for the winter. I’ve paired it with one of my favourite jeans from Rag & Bone, that fit absolutely perfect always, have lasted a long time and stay on perfectly.
My peep toe heels are older as well but I have linked a similar one and they go perfectly with my Stella & Dot clutch that has pockets for all your cards. Finally being the jewellery fanatic that I am I added my easy go to stack of arm candy from Juneau Luxe the Kenzie stack! I love her collections because they mix beautiful stones with metal and chain. It is unique, great quality and just pull everything together. I’ve also got a discount code for them below.
- Pink Camisole old from RW&Co – Similar from RW – pink cami, printed lace cami
- Rag & Bone Denim Jeans
- Peep Toe Heels – Similar in creme
- Stella & Dot City Slim Clutch
- Juneau Luxe Kenzie Arm Candy Stack – Use Jenk25 to get 25% Off
How do you deal with negativity in your life? I’d love to hear but then anyone reading this would also love to hear to in the event they are dealing with their own negativity.
Have a wonderful positive start to your week!! xo Jen